So, last week I received a pretty odd anonymous bitchy email about Kel. It was odd in that it was basically addressed to Kel, but sent to me at my personal email address. I’ll paraphrase as the original was pretty shockingly bad spelling and grammar. It went something like “Do you think you should be boasting about how much vodka you can drink when you’re a police officer and you teach people’s children?”

Seriously, what the f**k is that all about?

I had a look at all the old Facebook messages and it’s not like Kel’s said anything that 99% of FB users don’t say all the time. Clearly the sender of the mail was referring to a couple of jokey messages between Kel and a friend of hers from work about them getting together at the weekend but seriously, what the f**k? What’s it got to do with anyone else?

I’m struggling hard to figure out the motivation for sending it. Was it someone who has some kind of problem with alcohol themselves? Someone who has a problem with Kel? Was it actually someone to do with the school (we don’t believe that as we get on well with all the parents) or someone using that to cover their tracks? is it someone trying to have a pop at Kel for something to do with work, or to try & hurt me for some reason? None of it makes sense.

Whatever the reason it’s obviously caused all manner of upset now. To have seen those messages the person who sent it had to be on Kel’s friends list on Facebook and so then that now means she’s worried about what she says and who it might be. It’s got her so upset she’s now not even wanting to be at the school and so obviously that makes my previous worries on that front a million times worse.

One of Kel’s friends even suggested that it was someone’s misguided attempt to to get at Kel out of some kind of loyalty to me. Well if you’re reading this, I can tell you quite categorically that its’s not helping one bit. Yes we may have split up and Kel’s not interested in me any more but I still love her and Callum as much as I ever did and so anything or anyone that hurts her is also hurting me.

So, here’s the thing. If you’re reading this and you sent it, for fuck’s sake man up and own up so we can all move forward as at the moment you’re just hurting everyone.